Friday, 28 March 2008

Mayiladuthurai Beneficiary meet - March 1

Close on the heels of Chennai beneficiary meet, a similar beneficiary meet was organized in Mayiladudhurai on the evening of March 1st . The meet took place in Kumar Sir's tuition center. Kumar sir is our facilitator, mentor and acts as the pivot of Vidial's activity in Mayiladuthurai region. Kumar sir is working as a Tamil teacher in Melaiyur School, he is a multi faceted personality. For example despite being a Tamil teacher, he takes Maths tuition for Xth standard, is one of the best public speakers, takes part in a number of philanthropic activities and so on. We can go on listing his activities which would take a long time, lets come to that at a latter point of time. Presently, Kumar sir is taking care of 8 beneficiaries and is one of the important pillars responsible for our increase in our beneficiary count this year.


The beneficiary meets organized at Chennai and Coimbatore had given us some good lessons and hence we were geared up a little better with a decent plan. Since the meet place was a Tuition center, the center students also joined the fun. It helped us in a certain way that nobody except Kumar sir and Vidial members knew who are the beneficiaries. With the almost everybody being in their later part of their teens we were also able to link with them easily. After the games, everyone was asked to speak on their aim in life and whatever they wanted to tell. Initially it was tough to make them speak, but once a few spoke, the momentum started building up and at one stage we were pondering how to wind up since it was getting late. Speaking to a Public Audience gives a person a lot of courage, hence, we made sure that everyone spoke. One of the students in the tuition center got pretty much excited and he started narrating how he started dancing, how it gave him confidence, how his friends helped him, etc for about 15 minutes, it was with some difficulty we made him sit. We felt bad in stopping him, but already it was about two hours and it was getting dark, hence we had to stop him. Every beneficiary had spoken about his aim before the audience itself which was meticulously noted down. We had a private word with each of them to know what are other things which they needed.


The parents who had came thinking that this would be another meeting stuff were amazed by what happened. One of them asked everyone of us present there to take a pledge that, "After getting a job, each and everyone should contribute to the society in some way". Certainly, it moved us a lot.

We were honored by the presence of Pannerselvam Uncle, Elanthangudi School headmaster, who is also our facilitator at Mayiladuthurai. Pannerselvam uncle is a benevolent headmaster and is an active philanthropist.

On the sidelines of the meeting, a tri-cycle was to Soundarapandian, who got crippled due to Polio. Soundar has completed M.C.A after overcoming a lot of challenges and currently is looking for a job. We would like to strongly reiterate that this is not an activity done by Vidial, it was undertaken by the personal interest of one of our members and Smt.Ankayarkanni, teacher of Soundar. This was done in a Vidial meeting to show the the confidence, hard work of Soundar and our hopes were not dashed. The willpower Soundar radiated not only inspired but motivated everyone of us who were present there.

Vidial don't have words to express our gratitude to Kumar Sir for co-ordinating and organizing the meet in a splendid manner. We would also like to thank Pannerselvam uncle for making it to the meet despite his various commitments. We would also like to thank all the parents, who have made it to the meet and those who due to various reasons who could not attend the meet, but sent their children.

We will post the photos of the beneficiary meet soon.

Chennai Beneficiary Meet - February 24th

On February 24th beneficiary meet was held at Chennai. The meet was planned to be held at Gandhi Mandapam, Guindy, but only when we reached the place we came to know that there was a function organized by Tamil Nadu Government there. In Chennai, the memorial halls of Gandhi, Bakthavatsalam, Kamarajar and freedom fighters are located within the same campus. Luckily Kamarajar memorial hall was free and the meet location was changed to Kamarajar Memorial Hall.


All our Chennai members along with 9 beneficiaries made to the meet despite the scorching Chennai heat. It was nice to see some of our beneficiaries being accompanied by their parents.

This conduction of beneficiary meet across our major centers of our activity is a part of Vidial's effort to closely interact with the beneficiaries, establish a strong bond with them and use the bond to help them achieve greater heights. Hence, the first and foremost agenda was to get closer with them. Some games were planned before hand to make everyone shed the shyness and the thin veil of uncertainty which would be present normally whenever anyone meets a bunch of people who are unknown. The first few minutes of the games were a bit dull and gave us a bit of anxiety, but as time moved everybody got involved and it generated a good level of enthusiasm and interaction among all. To add some spice chocolates and titles(in charts) were given to winner of the games. This went for more than an hour, after which we decided to break and move on to other things.



We had some snacks, during which at least one person sat down with a beneficiary and had a casual talk regarding their aspirations, future plans and what assistance they need for the same. All these points were noted down and currently an action plan is being devised to execute Vidial's part in the coming weeks. Two hours was spent quite nicely at Kamarajar memorial hall. At the end of the day, when it was time to leave, the faces, all which had come with a doubt, with an uncertainty regarding what will take place, were full of smiles, giggles and laughter.


Kamarajar, who had got accustomed to the routine of young couples thronging his memorial hall, for a change saw a bunch of people who had a nice time. After the meeting only we realized that there would not have been a better place than Kamarajar memorial hall for having the meet, because it was Kamarajar who pioneered education in Tamil Nadu, it was him who introduced the uniform system in Tamil Nadu, invented the mid day meal scheme, above all opened schools all over Tamil Nadu.

And we hope that Kamrajar would have smiled seeing something being done for education.

At this Juncture, Vidial would like to express their thanks Miss.Muthulakshmi, one of our member's sister, who despite not being a Vidial member before, took self interest, planned and conducted the games for the meet. Also, we thank Mr.Mahalingam, our facilitator, who had made it to the meet and stayed for the entire duration.
We would also like to thank all the parents, who have made it to the meet and those who due to various reasons who could not attend the meet, but sent their children trusting us.

Please go to the below link to see more Chennai beneficiary meet photos.
http://picasaweb.google.co.in/Vidial/BeneficiaryMeetChennai