

On 11th May 2008, Bangalore beneficiary meet was organized at Lalbagh gardens. The meet, a day long event, was attended by 8 beneficiaries (Includes old + new beneficiaries + their sisters & brothers), 5 Vidial members and five more people who are associated with Vidial.
The fun began at 11 in the morning with an interaction game, in order to make things more interesting and enjoyable the entire lot was split into 4 teams, each team was led by a kid and also having a name. The teams formed were,
Each team had a brief discussion and the team leaders came forward and introduced others.
After the intro the a game was held using a cycle tube. Each team has to form a chain and pass the cycle tube through the bodies of all the team members without the tube coming out of the chain. The kids found it amusing to pass the tubes through them, after the game everybody had a refreshing course of fruit salad which was prepared freshly by the parents.
It was time for the fun filled version of volley ball, instead of the normal ball balloon filled with water was used. The ball has to be caught and hit back using a bed sheet held together by four members. Super Kings may not be have won the final in IPL, but they won it here after a engrossing encounter.Now it was time for drawing, that too on glass. Deepa drew a beautiful flower on glass and taught them how to do a glass painting. The kids were then given materials and they started painting whatever they knew and came up with beautiful paintings. Everybody had lunch after the painting was over.
After lunch, in order to improve the thinking and creativity of the kids, the kids and few of our members were split up into two groups and asked to enact a small drama. Right from the choice of the script to casting of characters, everything was left to them. At the end one group told people should not be greedy by enacting the story of the The Woodcutter and the Axe whereas the other team enacted a play which emphasized people should not steal.
By the time it was already four and hence we decided to wrap up things. The kids along with the paintings they had drawn were given some charts related to computer, sports, etc. We were happy when some of the kids asked why can't we meet tomorrow. Certainly these meets will be held hereafter at least twice a year.
Our member Kathish says, “I enjoyed my time with the kids, sharing their views and discussing with them. Thought after that I should not have missed other beneficiary meets as well. Past has gone, will try to attend all other beneficiary meets at various locations.”
Sudha felt that “There should have been a discussion amongst us before a programs like this. Because I felt few were concerned about the winning of their team and make the kids feel happy. Instead the main motive is to make the beneficiaries think and apply their idea to win or lose.” This is a valid point which will be given more importance in future.
We would like to thank the parents, the kids and our friends Kavinmozhi, Manohar, Suganya and Venkatraman who came for the meet.
Everybody again assembled after an hour's lunch break to have have more games and wisdom
Games like Ball game, 'Save your Balloon', Rope game, Observation game etc were conducted to show and impart various values to the kids.
The beauty of the day's proceedings was reflected during the feedback session when a kid came forward and said " I learnt, Whatever maybe the problem, one should never cry, instead we should spend our time and effort to find a solution".
Harish Kannan was moved by the feedback session and adds that,
"I felt the impact of the workshop, when a small girl, probably studying in some 4th or 5th standard, comes up and tells that she has got an idea of helping others. Children when taught something in a playing environment tend to be in a playful mood and don't worry about the learning part of it. But even with all the games, a child understanding the core of the program is a very big achievement. "
Muthukumari one of our volunteers who had come all the way from Chennai said, "Today I learnt that how games can be used to impart values to the children. The painting part was really superb, it gave a window for the children to let out their creativity. These kinds of workshop shows the defects in our educational system which fill our empty head and not our heart. More workshops like this can turn the children into good and responsible humans".
In the end Parthi na distributed charts on child rights to representatives of different schools, including our Vidial Kid Harish (He is a manager in an automobile company) who took one for his school. Shanti Ashram certificates were distributed to all students who participated in this workshop. The kids were very lucky to have these values to be introduced to them, which might leave a profound impact in their lives. We believe majority of the kids who attended the workshop will be practicing the values forever.
We are great full to Kumar Sir for organizing the workshop in a very short notice. The pain he took to gather students, arranging a hall and doing even simple logistics like buying ballons, paints, snacks etc inspired us a lot.
We would to convey our sincere thanks to Kumar sir, Parthi na & Dhivya for giving us such an opportunity. We plan to do more workshops of these kind for the year 2008-09.
Close on the heels of Chennai beneficiary meet, a similar beneficiary meet was organized in Mayiladudhurai on the evening of March 1st . The meet took place in Kumar Sir's tuition center. Kumar sir is our facilitator, mentor and acts as the pivot of Vidial's activity in Mayiladuthurai region. Kumar sir is working as a Tamil teacher in Melaiyur School, he is a multi faceted personality. For example despite being a Tamil teacher, he takes Maths tuition for Xth standard, is one of the best public speakers, takes part in a number of philanthropic activities and so on. We can go on listing his activities which would take a long time, lets come to that at a latter point of time. Presently, Kumar sir is taking care of 8 beneficiaries and is one of the important pillars responsible for our increase in our beneficiary count this year.
The beneficiary meets organized at Chennai and Coimbatore had given us some good lessons and hence we were geared up a little better with a decent plan. Since the meet place was a Tuition center, the center students also joined the fun. It helped us in a certain way that nobody except Kumar sir and Vidial members knew who are the beneficiaries. With the almost everybody being in their later part of their teens we were also able to link with them easily. After the games, everyone was asked to speak on their aim in life and whatever they wanted to tell. Initially it was tough to make them speak, but once a few spoke, the momentum started building up and at one stage we were pondering how to wind up since it was getting late. Speaking to a Public Audience gives a person a lot of courage, hence, we made sure that everyone spoke. One of the students in the tuition center got pretty much excited and he started narrating how he started dancing, how it gave him confidence, how his friends helped him, etc for about 15 minutes, it was with some difficulty we made him sit. We felt bad in stopping him, but already it was about two hours and it was getting dark, hence we had to stop him. Every beneficiary had spoken about his aim before the audience itself which was meticulously noted down. We had a private word with each of them to know what are other things which they needed.
The parents who had came thinking that this would be another meeting stuff were amazed by what happened. One of them asked everyone of us present there to take a pledge that, "After getting a job, each and everyone should contribute to the society in some way". Certainly, it moved us a lot.
We were honored by the presence of Pannerselvam Uncle, Elanthangudi School headmaster, who is also our facilitator at Mayiladuthurai. Pannerselvam uncle is a benevolent headmaster and is an active philanthropist.
On the sidelines of the meeting, a tri-cycle was to Soundarapandian, who got crippled due to Polio. Soundar has completed M.C.A after overcoming a lot of challenges and currently is looking for a job. We would like to strongly reiterate that this is not an activity done by Vidial, it was undertaken by the personal interest of one of our members and Smt.Ankayarkanni, teacher of Soundar. This was done in a Vidial meeting to show the the confidence, hard work of Soundar and our hopes were not dashed. The willpower Soundar radiated not only inspired but motivated everyone of us who were present there.
Vidial don't have words to express our gratitude to Kumar Sir for co-ordinating and organizing the meet in a splendid manner. We would also like to thank Pannerselvam uncle for making it to the meet despite his various commitments. We would also like to thank all the parents, who have made it to the meet and those who due to various reasons who could not attend the meet, but sent their children.
We will post the photos of the beneficiary meet soon.
VIDIAL is a Tamil word meaning Dawn.
Richness and beauty are found in abundance in our planet, but it is the dawn which unveils its beauty every morning. In the same way, VIDIAL hopes to shed light into unknown talents of students.
The motive of Vidial is not to provide scholarships alone, but to mentor the students, hone their skills and improve their personality which would make them lead independent lives. And we have achieved success to some extent.
Do visit our site http://www.vidial.org for more details